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T O P I C R E V I E WLeo-Cancer98I’m currently indecisive between 2 men. If you need more details, or you’re just curious, here are the 2 charts: 1. http://u.cubeupload.com/TravelTings/FCF9C6E1859F48728CED.png 2. http://u.cubeupload.com/TravelTings/4BE5642045984B61ACC2.png Links aren’t working July 19th, so here is the rest:Guy A:Leo Rising - 1st DecanVirgo Sun - 1st HouseVirgo Moon - 2nd HouseLeo Mercury - 1st HouseLeo Venus - 1st HouseLeo Mars - 1st HousePisces Jupiter - 8th HouseTaurus Saturn - 9th House.Guy B:Pisces Rising - 2nd DecanAries Sun - 1st HouseLibra Moon - 7th HousePisces Mercury - 1st HousePisces Venus - 12th HouseGemini Mars - 2nd HouseAries Jupiter - 1st House.Sagittarius Saturn - 9th House; 2 degrees away from The 10th.------------------------------------------------Cancer Rising2nd House Leo Sun3rd House Leo Mercury6th House Sagittarius Moon & Pluto1st House Cancer Venus & Mars10th House Pisces Jupiter conjunct MC.RandallBump!AQUACap88 quote:Originally posted by Leo-Cancer98:If you need more details, or you’re just curious, here are the 2 charts: 1. http://u.cubeupload.com/TravelTings/FCF9C6E1859F48728CED.png 2. http://u.cubeupload.com/TravelTings/4BE5642045984B61ACC2.png Links cannot be loaded. Why the question tho?Astra quote:Originally posted by Leo-Cancer98:I’m currently indecisive between 2 men. If you need more details, or you’re just curious, here are the 2 charts: 1. http://u.cubeupload.com/TravelTings/FCF9C6E1859F48728CED.png 2. http://u.cubeupload.com/TravelTings/4BE5642045984B61ACC2.png The links don't work. Based strictly on the aspects you mentioned, it honestly depends on your personality. If you are a very exciting and dynamic person who keeps people guessing, then choose the guy with Leo Venus square Uranus. I'm typically not a fan of men with venus-uranus aspects (even those with easy aspects) because they tend to be fickle. They tend to cheat. However, if you are not a traditional woman and are very spontaneous, then you will be able to keep his interest and he won't cheat. If you are a traditional, stable, secure and emotionally-mature, woman, then choose the man with pisces venus square stature. This type of man needs consistency and reassurance. A woman that has multiple personalities or is too impulsive will not mesh well with this type of man. Venus square saturn people usually don't feel worthy of being loved. To make matters worse, this guy has pisces venus which idealizes love. They will only feel secure in a relationship if you can provide a solid and stable connection. Just be aware that this guy may have self-esteem issues.Leo-Cancer98 quote:Originally posted by Astra: The links don't work. Based strictly on the aspects you mentioned, it honestly depends on your personality. If you are a very exciting and dynamic person who keeps people guessing, then choose the guy with Leo Venus square Uranus. I'm typically not a fan of men with venus-uranus aspects (even those with easy aspects) because they tend to be fickle. They tend to cheat. [b] However, if you are not a traditional woman and are very spontaneous, then you will be able to keep his interest and he won't cheat.[/B]I highly doubt a Virgo Sun & Moon guy would ever cheat though. Leo, a fixed sign, is his dominant sign too. His Virgo Sun also trines Saturn, by 2 degrees.Leo-Cancer98 quote:Originally posted by Astra: If you are a traditional, stable, secure and emotionally-mature, woman, then choose the man with pisces venus square stature. This type of man needs consistency and reassurance. A woman that has multiple personalities or is too impulsive will not mesh well with this type of man. Venus square saturn people usually don't feel worthy of being loved. To make matters worse, this guy has pisces venus which idealizes love. They will only feel secure in a relationship if you can provide a solid and stable connection. Just be aware that this guy may have self-esteem issues.Would this be applicable even if his 7th House Libra Moon has the following aspects, ordered by tightest orb:1. Moon square Mercury.2. Moon trine Mars.3. Moon square Uranus.4. Moon square Neptune. His Gemini Mars is in the 1st Decan too.Astra quote:Originally posted by Leo-Cancer98: Would this be applicable even if his 7th House Libra Moon has the following aspects, ordered by tightest orb:1. Moon square Mercury.2. Moon trine Mars.3. Moon square Uranus.4. Moon square Neptune. His Gemini Mars is in the 1st Decan too.A 7th house moon either wants to nurture others or wants to be nurtured. You will quickly figure out which category applies to this man. The libra moon craves relationships, but it's also known as the courtesan moon (i.e. they can detach their feelings pretty easily). This detachment can be good or bad. It depends a lot on other factors. The moon square neptune, uranus and mercury are a bit concerning. There may be a problem with deceiving others or deceiving himself. He can easily be deluded. It is difficult for him to be objective since his thinking is deeply affected by his emotions. However, he also has moon aspecting uranus, which adds detachment. This may either balance out his moodiness or he may try to hide his moodiness from you because he views his emotional side as a weakness. This guy has a need to feel close to someone, but is also terrified of becoming emotionally dependent on others. quote: I highly doubt a Virgo Sun & Moon guy would ever cheat though. Leo, a fixed sign, is his dominant sign too. His Virgo Sun also trines Saturn, by 2 degrees.LOL! Most of my friends have dated men with the virgo sun/virgo moon combo. All of them cheated. No, this does not mean every person with this combo is a cheater. The point is that any sign and any sun/moon combo is capable of cheating. Don't forget that Virgo is mutable, which increases the likelihood of cheating. Keep in mind that your links (at least at the time I checked them) did not work, so my answers were based strictly on the aspects you listed in the title of your post. That being said, no one's chart is perfect. Every chart has red flags. If you are debating between choosing two men, you ultimately pick the man who treats you with respect and kindness. Is he honest? Do his words match his actions (run if there is a disconnect)? Does he keep his promises? What are his dynamics like with his family? How does he view women? Has he cheated in the past (high school relationships don't count in my opinion)? Most importantly, do you have shared values? If you don't have compatible values, then the relationship will ultimately fail no matter how hard you both work at the relationship. Leo-Cancer98 quote:Originally posted by Astra: LOL! Most of my friends have dated men with the virgo sun/virgo moon combo. All of them cheated. No, this does not mean every person with this combo is a cheater. The point is that any sign and any sun/moon combo is capable of cheating. Don't forget that Virgo is mutable, which increases the likelihood of cheating. Keep in mind that your links (at least at the time I checked them) did not work, so my answers were based strictly on the aspects you listed in the title of your post. That being said, no one's chart is perfect. Every chart has red flags. If you are debating between choosing two men, you ultimately pick the man who treats you with respect and kindness. Is he honest? Do his words match his actions (run if there is a disconnect)? Does he keep his promises? What are his dynamics like with his family? How does he view women? Has he cheated in the past (high school relationships don't count in my opinion)? Most importantly, do you have shared values? If you don't have compatible values, then the relationship will ultimately fail no matter how hard you both work at the relationship. Ohh, I see. That must be why Venus, The 5th House, and The 7th House, have more bearing on romantic relationship tendencies. Thank goodness Guy A is Congolese, and has his Pluto In The 5th House. I have it too, but it’s 1.7 degrees away from The 6th House.Yes, he is very very respectful, kind, and honest. He is always hustling too, haha. He is born in Africa, and raised Congolese, so his family is his everything. He even decided to get a “Family” tattoo across his chest.He has 6 ex-girlfriends from ages 14-18, and never cheated on any of them.We do: Education, Work, Fitness, Family, Faith, Travel.LalafortunaeaWaaaay too much in the first house with guy A.Leo-Cancer98 quote:Originally posted by Lalafortunaea:Waaaay too much in the first house with guy A.What’s wrong with having a 1st House stellium? I have noticed how he is very confident, and quite self-focused. I don’t see it as negative thing though. I have Venus&Mars in The 1st House too Astra quote:Originally posted by Leo-Cancer98: What’s wrong with having a 1st House stellium? I have noticed how he is very confident, and quite self-focused. I don’t see it as negative thing though. I have Venus&Mars in The 1st House too People with many planets in the first house can be selfish and arrogant if they don't control the energies of the planets well. However, based on how you describe him, it sounds like he is confident and balanced. You also have the benefit of having two planets in your first house, so this will help you understand him easily and get along with him. LibrapurrOh, first one would be nightmare for me, Leo stellium (1st!) opp. Uranus look like too much fun for a regular being. He’s probably pretty entertaining. LibrapurrStoneMoonI was going to vote for Guy B, and then literally LOLed at th following...Originally posted by Astra:If you are a traditional, stable, secure and emotionally-mature, woman, then choose the man with pisces venus square stature. This type of man needs consistency and reassurance. A woman that has multiple personalities or is too impulsive will not mesh well with this type of man. Venus square saturn people usually don't feel worthy of being loved. To make matters worse, this guy has pisces venus which idealizes love. They will only feel secure in a relationship if you can provide a solid and stable connection. Just be aware that this guy may have self-esteem issues.That is me as a woman to a T and sounds like most men I have dated.... I have a Cap influence, so there you go. I agree with Astra's assessments completely. See how you line up, you know how you are better than anyone reading your chart, and you will know which guy is for you!Leo-Cancer98 quote:Originally posted by StoneMoon:I was going to vote for Guy B, and then literally LOLed at th following...Originally posted by Astra:If you are a traditional, stable, secure and emotionally-mature, woman, then choose the man with pisces venus square stature. This type of man needs consistency and reassurance. A woman that has multiple personalities or is too impulsive will not mesh well with this type of man. Venus square saturn people usually don't feel worthy of being loved. To make matters worse, this guy has pisces venus which idealizes love. They will only feel secure in a relationship if you can provide a solid and stable connection. Just be aware that this guy may have self-esteem issues.That is me as a woman to a T and sounds like most men I have dated.... I have a Cap influence, so there you go. I agree with Astra's assessments completely. See how you line up, you know how you are better than anyone reading your chart, and you will know which guy is for you!Thank you! The links are working now, so you can look at them if you wish Leo-Cancer98 quote:Originally posted by Randall:Bump!Thank you!
Links aren’t working July 19th, so here is the rest:
Guy A:Leo Rising - 1st DecanVirgo Sun - 1st HouseVirgo Moon - 2nd HouseLeo Mercury - 1st HouseLeo Venus - 1st HouseLeo Mars - 1st HousePisces Jupiter - 8th HouseTaurus Saturn - 9th House.
Guy B:Pisces Rising - 2nd DecanAries Sun - 1st HouseLibra Moon - 7th HousePisces Mercury - 1st HousePisces Venus - 12th HouseGemini Mars - 2nd HouseAries Jupiter - 1st House.Sagittarius Saturn - 9th House; 2 degrees away from The 10th.------------------------------------------------Cancer Rising2nd House Leo Sun3rd House Leo Mercury6th House Sagittarius Moon & Pluto1st House Cancer Venus & Mars10th House Pisces Jupiter conjunct MC.
quote:Originally posted by Leo-Cancer98:If you need more details, or you’re just curious, here are the 2 charts: 1. http://u.cubeupload.com/TravelTings/FCF9C6E1859F48728CED.png 2. http://u.cubeupload.com/TravelTings/4BE5642045984B61ACC2.png
Links cannot be loaded. Why the question tho?
quote:Originally posted by Leo-Cancer98:I’m currently indecisive between 2 men. If you need more details, or you’re just curious, here are the 2 charts: 1. http://u.cubeupload.com/TravelTings/FCF9C6E1859F48728CED.png 2. http://u.cubeupload.com/TravelTings/4BE5642045984B61ACC2.png
The links don't work. Based strictly on the aspects you mentioned, it honestly depends on your personality. If you are a very exciting and dynamic person who keeps people guessing, then choose the guy with Leo Venus square Uranus. I'm typically not a fan of men with venus-uranus aspects (even those with easy aspects) because they tend to be fickle. They tend to cheat. However, if you are not a traditional woman and are very spontaneous, then you will be able to keep his interest and he won't cheat.
If you are a traditional, stable, secure and emotionally-mature, woman, then choose the man with pisces venus square stature. This type of man needs consistency and reassurance. A woman that has multiple personalities or is too impulsive will not mesh well with this type of man. Venus square saturn people usually don't feel worthy of being loved. To make matters worse, this guy has pisces venus which idealizes love. They will only feel secure in a relationship if you can provide a solid and stable connection. Just be aware that this guy may have self-esteem issues.
quote:Originally posted by Astra: The links don't work. Based strictly on the aspects you mentioned, it honestly depends on your personality. If you are a very exciting and dynamic person who keeps people guessing, then choose the guy with Leo Venus square Uranus. I'm typically not a fan of men with venus-uranus aspects (even those with easy aspects) because they tend to be fickle. They tend to cheat. [b] However, if you are not a traditional woman and are very spontaneous, then you will be able to keep his interest and he won't cheat.[/B]
I highly doubt a Virgo Sun & Moon guy would ever cheat though. Leo, a fixed sign, is his dominant sign too. His Virgo Sun also trines Saturn, by 2 degrees.
quote:Originally posted by Astra: If you are a traditional, stable, secure and emotionally-mature, woman, then choose the man with pisces venus square stature. This type of man needs consistency and reassurance. A woman that has multiple personalities or is too impulsive will not mesh well with this type of man. Venus square saturn people usually don't feel worthy of being loved. To make matters worse, this guy has pisces venus which idealizes love. They will only feel secure in a relationship if you can provide a solid and stable connection. Just be aware that this guy may have self-esteem issues.
Would this be applicable even if his 7th House Libra Moon has the following aspects, ordered by tightest orb:1. Moon square Mercury.2. Moon trine Mars.3. Moon square Uranus.4. Moon square Neptune.
His Gemini Mars is in the 1st Decan too.
quote:Originally posted by Leo-Cancer98: Would this be applicable even if his 7th House Libra Moon has the following aspects, ordered by tightest orb:1. Moon square Mercury.2. Moon trine Mars.3. Moon square Uranus.4. Moon square Neptune. His Gemini Mars is in the 1st Decan too.
A 7th house moon either wants to nurture others or wants to be nurtured. You will quickly figure out which category applies to this man. The libra moon craves relationships, but it's also known as the courtesan moon (i.e. they can detach their feelings pretty easily). This detachment can be good or bad. It depends a lot on other factors. The moon square neptune, uranus and mercury are a bit concerning. There may be a problem with deceiving others or deceiving himself. He can easily be deluded. It is difficult for him to be objective since his thinking is deeply affected by his emotions. However, he also has moon aspecting uranus, which adds detachment. This may either balance out his moodiness or he may try to hide his moodiness from you because he views his emotional side as a weakness. This guy has a need to feel close to someone, but is also terrified of becoming emotionally dependent on others.
quote: I highly doubt a Virgo Sun & Moon guy would ever cheat though. Leo, a fixed sign, is his dominant sign too. His Virgo Sun also trines Saturn, by 2 degrees.
LOL! Most of my friends have dated men with the virgo sun/virgo moon combo. All of them cheated. No, this does not mean every person with this combo is a cheater. The point is that any sign and any sun/moon combo is capable of cheating. Don't forget that Virgo is mutable, which increases the likelihood of cheating.
Keep in mind that your links (at least at the time I checked them) did not work, so my answers were based strictly on the aspects you listed in the title of your post.
That being said, no one's chart is perfect. Every chart has red flags. If you are debating between choosing two men, you ultimately pick the man who treats you with respect and kindness. Is he honest? Do his words match his actions (run if there is a disconnect)? Does he keep his promises? What are his dynamics like with his family? How does he view women? Has he cheated in the past (high school relationships don't count in my opinion)? Most importantly, do you have shared values? If you don't have compatible values, then the relationship will ultimately fail no matter how hard you both work at the relationship.
quote:Originally posted by Astra: LOL! Most of my friends have dated men with the virgo sun/virgo moon combo. All of them cheated. No, this does not mean every person with this combo is a cheater. The point is that any sign and any sun/moon combo is capable of cheating. Don't forget that Virgo is mutable, which increases the likelihood of cheating. Keep in mind that your links (at least at the time I checked them) did not work, so my answers were based strictly on the aspects you listed in the title of your post. That being said, no one's chart is perfect. Every chart has red flags. If you are debating between choosing two men, you ultimately pick the man who treats you with respect and kindness. Is he honest? Do his words match his actions (run if there is a disconnect)? Does he keep his promises? What are his dynamics like with his family? How does he view women? Has he cheated in the past (high school relationships don't count in my opinion)? Most importantly, do you have shared values? If you don't have compatible values, then the relationship will ultimately fail no matter how hard you both work at the relationship.
Ohh, I see. That must be why Venus, The 5th House, and The 7th House, have more bearing on romantic relationship tendencies. Thank goodness Guy A is Congolese, and has his Pluto In The 5th House. I have it too, but it’s 1.7 degrees away from The 6th House.Yes, he is very very respectful, kind, and honest. He is always hustling too, haha. He is born in Africa, and raised Congolese, so his family is his everything. He even decided to get a “Family” tattoo across his chest.He has 6 ex-girlfriends from ages 14-18, and never cheated on any of them.We do: Education, Work, Fitness, Family, Faith, Travel.
quote:Originally posted by Lalafortunaea:Waaaay too much in the first house with guy A.
What’s wrong with having a 1st House stellium? I have noticed how he is very confident, and quite self-focused. I don’t see it as negative thing though. I have Venus&Mars in The 1st House too
quote:Originally posted by Leo-Cancer98: What’s wrong with having a 1st House stellium? I have noticed how he is very confident, and quite self-focused. I don’t see it as negative thing though. I have Venus&Mars in The 1st House too
People with many planets in the first house can be selfish and arrogant if they don't control the energies of the planets well. However, based on how you describe him, it sounds like he is confident and balanced. You also have the benefit of having two planets in your first house, so this will help you understand him easily and get along with him.
Originally posted by Astra:If you are a traditional, stable, secure and emotionally-mature, woman, then choose the man with pisces venus square stature. This type of man needs consistency and reassurance. A woman that has multiple personalities or is too impulsive will not mesh well with this type of man. Venus square saturn people usually don't feel worthy of being loved. To make matters worse, this guy has pisces venus which idealizes love. They will only feel secure in a relationship if you can provide a solid and stable connection. Just be aware that this guy may have self-esteem issues.
That is me as a woman to a T and sounds like most men I have dated.... I have a Cap influence, so there you go. I agree with Astra's assessments completely. See how you line up, you know how you are better than anyone reading your chart, and you will know which guy is for you!
quote:Originally posted by StoneMoon:I was going to vote for Guy B, and then literally LOLed at th following...Originally posted by Astra:If you are a traditional, stable, secure and emotionally-mature, woman, then choose the man with pisces venus square stature. This type of man needs consistency and reassurance. A woman that has multiple personalities or is too impulsive will not mesh well with this type of man. Venus square saturn people usually don't feel worthy of being loved. To make matters worse, this guy has pisces venus which idealizes love. They will only feel secure in a relationship if you can provide a solid and stable connection. Just be aware that this guy may have self-esteem issues.That is me as a woman to a T and sounds like most men I have dated.... I have a Cap influence, so there you go. I agree with Astra's assessments completely. See how you line up, you know how you are better than anyone reading your chart, and you will know which guy is for you!
Thank you! The links are working now, so you can look at them if you wish
quote:Originally posted by Randall:Bump!
Thank you!
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